can someone tell my mum to stop saying that i had not help in the house at all? i help since young. even selling yakult, sec 2 i started going to work to help contribute to hdb money. i have started working ever since then. on my birthday each year, there's always scolding and im always helping. soon, bro went ns, but even before he did, he did not help at home. but mum treasure him. and when he go ns and get some ns money, he spent those and even got money, so he get more money than he get. and he dont have to help at home, he can go out as and when he like, he can dont help. he always go grandma house, and every relative see him as his son. he went grandma house to get cigg, he go out for family dinner, and recently, i had some plans, but i did not know that they were going out to eat just the day before. and when i said i want to go, bro give me a fuckin look and said i nvr say early. you guys did not tell me, grandparents did not tell me when i went to their house too. and when i did some chores earlier, and mum suddenly came back after selling yakult, and she shouted like some fucking woman say somebody did not help me do anything when i pratically just send yakult to her a while ago only. and she shouted my name saying cant you help and started her grumbling again. but there's no bro's name. she then went into the room then she came out and talk to my bro like nth happen, laughin and whatever. and whenever i quarrelled with my bro, she can side with him and whatever so. but, totally not me, even when he mentioned some of my things that is totally not good to anyone. whatever, i dont feel like givin a fuck then. i feel like leaving totally, i should have left years ago. i dont know why im struggling just because i dont want to see my mum worrying of my bro and dad's thing, sometimes, my sis. and she became so frantic that i always dont know what to do. but why me? i did not do anything, i help out, even though im working. but what do you expect me to do! i really hate myself for being such a bother. why do i have to at like one who care, who bother when no one bother!